Sunday, January 20, 2008

In Memoriam: Myrtle Jensen



Requiescat:
Your life too often touched
By loss, you learned to smile and suffer much.

Each loss--of child,
Of sibling, full-grown child--
But smoothed the rough, and made you Jesus-mild.

The vacant rooms
Soon burst with newer kin:
Job's blessing, and no space to hold it in.

You loved each one as each:
Your late-come daughter's daughter
You fostered with quick smiles and easy laughter,

Warm homemade love,
Knit kisses unrestrained,
And healed her of a heritage of shame.

The grandsons born
With weak heart or weak limbs
Were cradled in your wellworn love for him

Whose broken form
You bore, nurtured, interred.
By this same love your daughters, too, endure.

All our daughters
And our sons you claimed,
You knew their faces, murmured each new name

As if your own:
And your own we will be
In God's good time, and sweet eternity.

So rest: your
Altar-loss has been restored,
What's left behind will yet be your reward.


Wendy's maternal grandmother, Myrtle Jensen, died this past weekend after a long decline. It is both blessing and, of course, cause for mourning. She was a tender soul, quicker to smile than frown, even as her limbs lost strength and the fog of age grew thick around her. She was tended faithfully by her husband, Evan, and by fine, devoted children and grandchildren. She left as she came in: warmed by loved ones, blessed with the happiness earned by trials and joys alike.

Wendy's parents called us up early Sunday morning to see if she could return home for the funeral, and we quickly made the arrangements. Those of you in Alberta who would like to see or speak to her in person or by phone can reach her at the Raymond manse. She'll be there from Monday night through Sunday. We know you'll respect the reason for her visit, but no one will complain if you call. The funeral is planned for Thursday.

Salaam. Namaste. Shantih. Shalom. Peace out.

More from us boys in a day or two. Sorry we're a few days late and several dirhams short. We know you'll forgive us, considering.

8 comments:

Ashley said...

What a beautiful tribute. I am so excited to see you tomorrow Wendy. I wish it could have been the whole family. We love and miss ALL the boys (you included, Jon)! Good luck without mom.

Mom Penny said...

Beautiful Jonathon, as always. I'm glad that Wendy was able to get home for the funeral, it makes a difference.

Wendy, if you find time, give us a call, when it works for you. We love you. xxxxx

Jon, Wendy, Riley, Chris, and Jo said...

Wow. Thanks Jon. I am balling in the middle of the airport now.

ec said...

jon.

wow.

that was amazing.

i haven't cried about this since mom called me to tell me the news. it feels good to do it now...

thanks.

looking forward to seeing wendy.

love you guys.

Gramma C. said...

Thanks Jon, Beautiful tribute for my Mother. I do so appreciate it and thanks for being so helpful in getting Wendy on her way to us. We'll always be grateful.

Amber said...

Oh man, I am bawling, too. You are great, Jon. I am pretty excited to see Wendy. I have the best family, and I am so grateful!

Unknown said...

Very beautiful big brother. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Anonymous said...

OK, so this is coming incredibly late in the game, but I just happend to now stumble upon this site for thie first time....a very fitting and touching tribute, Jon!

Wes